In-Depth Thoughts from The Girl
Hey there, and thanks for making it down here to the fun section! Who can believe it’s 2019?? Hard to believe it was almost 20 years ago that I stood at the Newfoundland Harbor Front to ring in the new millennium! Back when “Getting Jiggy With It” was both a hot song and a socially acceptable phrase.
But that was then, and this is now. So what are we doing and looking forward to in 2019?
Soon we will be boarding an airplane that takes us to warmer weather! Yes, this year we are headed south again to chase another winterless year! We have changed it up this year; while we are sad not to head back to Australia, we are very excited to explore as a family what Cape Town, South Africa has to offer.
This year we have restructured how we will enjoy our time in the sun. Ray and I will be working shorter weeks and enjoying some real vacation time with our girls. It might seem that we travel a lot with the family, and that is true, but travel does not always equal “vacation”, especially for Ray.
For example, last summer when we traveled to Florida for two weeks to spend time with family. Ray ended up building a temporary man-cave in the AirBnB garage while we were there. Companies even came to our vacation rental to show off new equipment to get ahead of the Eurobike announcements. It is very difficult for Ray to take real time off during the summer months, as that is when there is a lot of events, announcements, and testing to be done.
We are often feeling guilty for not taking traditional summer vacations with the kiddos. But being the busy season, summer vacations have started to feel a bit more of an obligation than like a much-needed break. Ray might be sitting on a beach, but his mind is on the work you should be doing instead.
Last January through March we experimented with relocating south so Ray could maximize working somewhere warm. Which, in fact just created a very long work year for him. Burning the candle on both ends would be a good description of 2018. We had a lot of fun in Australia, but I don’t think Ray and I did a good job of outlining what each person’s expectation was for each day: work vs. family. So that led to some confusion and ultimately frustrations.
So, this is our attempt to create some family-work balance. We already have a calendar set. A mix of quality time with the Peanuts (aka, Ray will gives up access to his laptop), and other days we can both take advantage of the warmer temps to test sports tech goodness and write about it!
I promise to continue the weekly newsletter, and rest assured we could never really keep Ray away from his laptop for too long. So there should be a scheduled 4+ posts each week while we are there! Albeit some of them might just be a little less about tech, and a little bit more about diving with Great White Sharks! “Baby Shark Doo-Doo-Doo”… sorry, I couldn’t resist!
Anyone reading from Cape Town? Maybe we will organize a group run or ride! Please feel free to send some info our way regarding favorite restaurants, races, or fun family ideas? Hit up the email button below!
As always, thanks for reading… that was a long one!
~The Girl
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